fred sez Albany NY U.S.

I was a chef before carpal tunnel made me switch careers. I was also a minister.I live with my male lover Brian (45) in an open relationship. We love each other and are committed to each other, just adventurous. I was a "Flanders" for so long, I now want to experience life to its fullest! If i ask you to be a friend, it is because I believe that you are gay friendly and cute, if not, do not accept me if you are not 18+ years. i walk with a cane due to back problems. We/I like to play with friends...hugs and a kiss, Fred

Hello, to begin with, i think i am an old fart with the heart and energy of a 17 year old!I was a breeder before realizing who i am and am one of the late blooming gay guys. I believe that God loves me, even more, as a GAY practicing homosexual!!i am a big fat chubby guy and i love who i am.i am dieting for health reasons. if you don't like fat guys, too bad!i now have self esteem and love who i am!I was married to a woman for 26 years, & have been with brian 8+ years.I only like men 18 years+, not boys!

Brian, age 45